Wednesday, October 25, 2017

Relationships Done Easy "What If A Choice For Us Does Not Have To Be A Choice Against Someone Else? "



WHAT IF A CHOICE FOR US DOES NOT

 HAVE TO BE A CHOICE AGAINST 

SOMEONE ELSE? 

"One of the things I realized in those early days is how many people are walking around with a chip on their shoulder waiting for someone to step out of line so they can unleash their anger. I had gone from the peacemaker in my relationships to an explosion waiting to happen. “Make my day. Say something so I can release my pent up frustrations on you.” Having lived in New York, I had a lot of that attitude. Every time I said, “That doesn’t work for me,” my new partner would respond, with complete calm, “OK, I can change that, no problem. I didn’t know that was important to you. It won’t happen again.” And it never did. Simple. Easy. What if a choice for us does not have to be a choice against someone else? What if we could simply state what works for us and allow the other person to choose it or not? "

~Kass Thomas

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Wednesday, October 18, 2017

Relationships Done Easy "It’s Almost Easier To Have Tasks Than It Is To Have The Job Of Being You "


IT’S ALMOST EASIER TO HAVE TASKS

THAN IT IS TO HAVE THE JOB OF BEING

YOU

"So many of us go through relationships with roles. There’s some part of the deal and deliver in a relationship that one person does the planning, the other earns the money, or takes care of the house, or whatever it is you are “responsible for.” When it’s about you, and exploring who you are, it brings a level of freedom and discovery most people are afraid of or run away from. It’s almost easier to have tasks than it is to have the job of being you, whatever that looks like. "

~Kass Thomas

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Wednesday, October 11, 2017

Relationships Done Easy "The Willingness To Change When Change Is Required "



THE WILLINGNESS TO CHANGE WHEN

CHANGE IS REQUIRED 


"My husband and I keep working and playing together. When something doesn’t work, we adjust it, change it, or agree to disagree, but it is never a deal breaker, at least not up to this point. We are willing to discuss it, and that is what is vital to me: the willingness to change when change is required and the willingness to honor both of us, recognizing that a choice for me does not have to be a choice against him."

~Kass Thomas

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Wednesday, October 4, 2017

Relationships Done Easy: "They Were A Set Of Coordinates Dictated By This Reality "


THEY WERE A SET OF COORDINATES DICTATED BY THIS REALITY


"Isn’t it interesting that when we’re not willing to see something, no matter how obvious it is, we just don’t see it? It obviously was not the right life for me or the right relationship for me; the coordinates were not mine, they were a set of coordinates dictated by this reality, and somehow I bought them hook, line and sinker. Sink her. "
~Kass Thomas

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